I just got a message from a friend that was disappointed in some colleagues. Her expectations wasn't met. I understand her frustration, as we have all been there. We should remember though, that sometimes people don't mean to or even realize when they aren't living up our expectations of them.
If those people purposely disapoint us(or don't care if they disapoint us), perhaps we need to lower our expectations of them. Perhaps even sepperate ourselves from them.
However, if they disappointed us with out reallizing it, that is a different problem. A problem that might better be solved by discussing the issue with them.
We are all human. We all make mistakes. Evaluate as fairly as possible to determine what is intentional, accidental, or merely careless. In all situations, act or react appropriately.
Remember who your friends are, and keep them close. You need them, and they need you.
Mr. Sting
Sting Investigations, Inc.
Tulsa, Oklahoma